Men will talk about feelings Was your guy raised as a traditional, stoic, man's man? If so, let WebMD walk you through 18 relationship secrets, athered from psychologists who study gender roles. Secret No. 1: It may be easier for your man to talk about feelings indirectly. Ask what he'd do during a romantic weekend. Or what he thought the first time he met you. His answers will reveal how he feels and bring you closer.